Monday, January 19, 2015

Day Off

I have three days free of babysitting and I thought I would be productive during this time, both with writing and with organizing, cleaning the various neglected areas of my home, the basement where we wrapped Christmas presents and left the boxes, bags, wrapping paper and whatnot, the guest bedroom where the grandkids, in their enthusiasm for creative expression, covered the room in what appears to an explosion of craft supplies, drawings and toys, and my office, where papers and folders and catalogues have come to rest in growing piles of precarious mounds.


Unfortunately or maybe it is fortuitous I came down with a head cold over the weekend and find myself with very little energy or desire to do much other than read, sleep and play video games. Perhaps it is time to take a break from the treadmill of responsibilities and obligations, to take a page from my dogs’ playbook of life and spend the day napping, going for walks in the fresh air and enjoying a treat or two. Sounds like a good plan for today and a good plan to get over this cold as quickly as possible. Tomorrow? Well, I will see what the morning brings; after all I want to make sure I am healthy when I next care for my grandchild.

Thursday, January 1, 2015

Happy New Year

I see it has been awhile since I last posted something. My bad. I could list all kinds of excuses but there isn’t really an excuse, just life and the choices we all have to make on how we spend our time and energy. For me it wasn’t a conscience choice just a slow pile up of other obligations and events that shifted my focus away from writing to family and their needs.

In August I gladly accepted the responsibility of watching my new grandson five days a week. It wore me out and energized me at the same time, watching him grow; delighting in his smiles and giggles. Just like the year before when I cared for my granddaughter for several months. And just like the year before I felt confident I would be able to continue writing on occasion.

Then September arrived, with worsening health issues for my mother and for my husband’s father. Together my husband and I supported each other, tossing the ball of household responsibility back and forth, allowing him to spend last few weeks of his father’s life with him and the rest of his family, a time of closeness to be cherished and carried in the heart, strengthening the bonds of family, and allowing me to spend time with my mom helping her through the holidays, celebrating with our family, bringing everyone together for Thanksgiving and Christmas arriving at the end of the year with some sadness and a lot of gratefulness in our lives.

As the hustle and bustle subsides and I have time to reflect on the past year and sort out my thoughts and feelings I find myself looking forward to the new year with anticipation of adventures, the learning and experiencing of new things or revisiting the previous, keeping alive the memories of happy times, of time to be with my mom and with my husband’s family, with our children and grandchildren, with the rest of both of our large extended families and of course writing.


May the New Year bring you hope, joy and peace and adventures!